Jamie Carmelle Antonette

Sex Positions To Try While Locked Up In A Chastity Cage Gone are the days when chastity was typically for women as more and more men are rapidly getting more interested in having their dicks locked up in a cage. Although chastity means orgasm denial, that doesn’t necessarily mean that you and your partner can’t have mindblowing sex. Here at SugarKink, we have rounded up some of the best sex positions that you can enjoy with your partner or Mistress. All About Her Pleasure Let’s get one thing clear about male chastity: just because your cock is in a cage, doesn’t mean that you’re incapacitated in having sex. In fact, this is the best time to show your love and devotion to her as contrary to belief, the possibilities are quite endless. Rendering yourself to your keyholder leaves you at her mercy which makes playtime sessions unexpected -- thus leading to heightened sensations and powerful stimulations. Come to think of it, chastity can further intensify the trust in your relationship as you will be surrendering total control over your prized possession to your partner. Now it’s time to add even more spice to the bedroom with our list on what sex positions to try during chastity. The Classic Cowgirl Although this is very common, this position allows the Mistress to have total command over their slave. Using a chastity sex toy, this well-known stance can easily turn into something devious as your partner can easily tease your locked up dick as she gyrates her hips and let any of your exposed skin (if any) feel her softness. As soon as she’s over the edge, she may demand you to wear a strap-on as she uses your body to satisfy herself. There is nothing more unforgiving than seeing her move her hips up and down on a dildo, and not on your punished dick. Queening Queening stays true to its name as perhaps it is one of the most empowering sexual positions for women. Face-sitting has been taking up a storm in the BDSM community as it allows the submissive man to be placed beneath their partner (their rightful place) as he worships and gives her the undivided attention that she deserves. In this position, your Mistress can either face forward or backward (to your toes). When facing forward, she can look down on you as you please her with every flick of your tongue. Meanwhile, for slaves who get their fix when pleasing someone else, they can have a full view of their partner as waves of ecstasy splash down her face. Facing the other way is a much-preferred choice as your partner can move more freely and gain full access to the rest of your body. Ladies, just imagine kneeling over him on your hands and knees and pushing your privates upon his face. In this position, you can easily direct your asshole to his tongue which is quite the exquisite experience if you haven’t experienced it before. Another benefit that women can get out of the backward position is that they can tease their slave’s caged cock. The number of ways in teasing him is endless; you can either give his flaccid penis a lick of quick suck if you’re feeling generous or show him no mercy and watch him drool as you make him wait for nothing. The Classic Cunnilingus Perhaps the most common positions out there, oral sex may have been around ever since humans learned the art of pleasing one another. Although this may be a classic, it never fails to satisfy anyone and has also evolved through the times. Nowadays, cunnilingus comes with many variations but we will only highlight the ones that suit the dominant ones out there. Kneeling Between Her Legs There is nothing more submissive than having your penis locked up and kneeling in front of your Mistress, waiting for her permission so that you can get a taste of her delicious pussy. In this position, your partner can enjoy the luxury of putting their hand behind your head to shove you in further inside; or grab and pull your hair as hard as they want to. Another commanding thing that your partner can do is squeeze her thighs around your head, make you massage or worship their feet or make you stop multiple times as she pulls you closer to her privates and let you smell that sweet smell of arousal that can drive you in a deeper submissive state. If you wish to take the dominant play further, you may ask her to put a collar and leash around you to additionally enhance your helpless state. Standing Over You Another variation to have you kneel beneath her, this version allows your Mistress to completely take control over your face by smothering not only their pussy, but also make you anally please them. This a great stance to letting her know that she’s boss as you gaze upon her and accomplish her demands with your mouth and even your fingers. Pegging If you haven’t experienced it before, pegging can give you a kind of pleasure that you never thought possible. First off, let’s start with a brief background on your prostate. For starters, your prostate has tons of nerve endings that when stimulated in the right way, can be overwhelmingly good. Another important thing is that this is where you can find the male G-spot in which many has described is the key for a full-body orgasm. Just like chastity, pegging may require several preparations, especially for novice slaves. If you’re feeling a bit nervous about this, you may tell your partner that you can’t go from zero to dildo. She may start with a finger or two or maybe even train you with a but plug to make your muscles more relaxed. Once you’re ready, never forget to use a generous amount of lube to make the experience smoother and more pleasing. A solid strap-on and a decent dildo are of course needed for this kink. Remember though that the golden rule when buying a dildo is by going for something slightly smaller to the one that you think you’d like. Once everything is good to go, let your Mistress assume the whichever position they think is the most empowering for them. After all, sex in male chastity as we have mentioned is all about her. Cleaning before and after is another important matter that needs to be taken care of when pegging. You may use the same cleaning materials with your chastity cage on the dildo and/or butt plug that was used. Moreover, it may be advisable if you would not consume any food or empty your bowels ahead of time to avoid any mishaps when taking the device out. Orgasm Denial and Edging Orgasm control is one of the essences of male chastity which can be quite unforgiving depending on how good of a slave you are. Although it sounds ruthless, holding off on your orgasm is an excellent way of enhancing sexual chemistry and achieving explosive ejaculation when you’re finally allowed to. This kink comes with three variations, namely complete denial, tease and denial, and ruined orgasm. Just to give you an overall idea of each type, we have listed it as below: Complete Denial - orgasm, sexual activities, and masturbation are all prohibited Tease and Denial - teasing and edging that can make you close to orgasm, but you’re not allowed to cum until your Mistress gives her approval Ruined Orgasm - orgasm is imminent, however, your partner will do any means necessary to either stop this from happening or make it less satisfying Sexual denial is a great way to boost male chastity as this alone is an amazing tool to train a man in controlling his release, which can also benefit him as it can decrease the chances of pre-ejaculation. However, of course, this will only happen if your MIstress would allow such. On the other hand, edging and orgasm denial may seem too similar but not quite. As the name suggests. orgasm denial is a game in which you are completely denied orgasm while edging is a bit more forgiving because there’s still a reward in the end. Edging is another good way of strengthening your bond with your partner as this play requires not only total dominance but also total knowledge of their partner’s body reactions when they are nearing climax. It is important to know the right time of stopping the inevitable as doing it late may ruin the session. Introducing BDSM and Role Play If you feel that having your cock locked up in a cage isn’t enough, then why not consider taking it up a notch and introduce restraints on your next session. Bondage provides endless possibilities as it can either be romantic or downright brutal. Your Mistress may spread out your arms and legs then tie you on both ends, as you completely submit your body and be her new favorite sex toy. Perhaps male chastity can be directly connected to the FemDom kink since you are granting the power of complete dominance over to your partner. Male chastity is an excellent gateway to BDSM as you and your partner either use a number of bondage toys and restraints, which can eventually lead to role-playing and other kinky games. For example, your Mistress can do the inevitable impact play on her boy toy. There are a number of things to try such as the good, old-fashioned hand spanking, or do a modern take on it by using floggers, whips, or paddles. While doing so, this can branch out to another kink which is pet play, wherein she may put a collar and leash around your neck as you go down on all fours and get whipped. At the end of the day, there’s nothing more stimulating than seeing a Mistress standing over her locked up, submissive partner. Male chastity pretty much opens a rabbit hole into a world of hidden sexual fantasies that you and your partner are yet to discover. These playtime ideas can be fun and exciting but still, some of it requires some research and safety precautions. Ideally, your sessions can be also consensual and safe, not forced (unless this is your kink). Nevertheless, we are positive that male chastity, along with these sexual positions, can take your relationship to a deeper, more trusting level.