Jamie Carmelle Antonette

First Week in Chastity - How To Get Through It After multiple research and lengthy discussions with your partner, the time has finally come to indulge yourself in the world of male chastity. We would like to officially welcome you to a whole new world filled with endless possibilities that can certainly strengthen your bond with your partner. There are a number of reasons why people are curious about male chastity. Some popular reasons maybe to help spice things up in the bedroom or you’re a curious cat that wants to try out something new. Whatever your reason may be, SugarKink is here to help you navigate your way in the world of male chastity. Your First Male Chastity Cage Congratulations on your new device! But don’t get too excited and wear it right away, you still need to check on a number of things first. Test your device thoroughly Treat your new chastity cage like a gadget, you need to test if the parts are complete and that there are no loose ends. Check it based on the material that was used; for example, if the device is made with plastic, check if the overall feel of it is smooth especially inside as you don’t want any protruding plastic to irritate your skin. Get Familiar With It Now is where it gets crucial, because if you haven’t measured yourself correctly then you undoubtedly need to return it and get a replacement with the right size. Chastity is indeed about not allowing yourself to have an erection but if you still need to squeeze your flaccid dick in, then you need to change the device. If you did choose the correct size, then you can go ahead and proceed with wearing the cage to get an overall feel of chastity. The easiest way to install it is by putting a thin layer of lotion or lube on the inner walls of your cage, then another layer on your penis to make it significantly easier for you to slide it in. Getting Too Excited Trying out new things can get anyone excited. It normally is a good thing with all other things, but not quite with male chastity. It’s very likely that you will have an erection as you try it on but this is completely normal. There are a number of ways to lose your boner such as walking it out, taking a cold shower, and even staying calm by breathing deeply. You also need to distract yourself from kinky thoughts or ask your keyholder to leave the room as her presence can alleviate the pressure and excitement. No Need To Rush As with all things that are good in life, we advise you to practice chastity in a slow, yet steady manner. It’s normal for some people to suddenly feel the rush fo wearing it for hours, even overnight in one go but this is not advisable. The fantasy of longterm denial is very real, but honestly, the reality if it is quite different. It can be more difficult than what you’d initially expect but that’s normal. The best way would be to wear it for just a couple of hours at first - and if possible in the luxury of your own home since you constantly need to check your package from time to time. Once you get the hang of it, you may try in wearing it overnight then even up to 24 hours. From there you can double on the duration as long as you allow your cock to adjust in its new space. Chastity Cage Hygiene If you’ve somehow managed to wear it for a couple of hours now, then you need to be more considerate of your personal hygiene. It is a must in the game of chastity. Also, you need to consider your daily activities because if you do a physically exerting job or exercise then you need to double up on your hygiene. Not only is it important to wash every day, but you also need to check on your device from time to time if not daily. Looking at the bigger picture, there may be instances wherein someone might accidentally bump on it hence you need to be warier of any signs of unnecessary discomfort, itchiness, and pain. We have also created a useful list of cleaning tips for you and your chastity cage. ● ● ● ● ● ● Use sterile cotton buds to dry the inner wall of the cage Use a small and soft paintbrush to clean the hard to reach areas of the cage such as through the gaps Rinse the inner side of the tube after using the toilet and remove excess moisture with a cotton bud if you’re not allowed to take it off Use your showerhead to blast water into the cage Wash it with mild or antibacterial soap daily Apply lotion or lube as needed (more if you’re wearing plastic or silicone cage) If you have been wearing it for up a couple of days now, we suggest that you allot a day every week, in which your Mistress can grant you temporary freedom to thoroughly clean the device to make it last longer. Locked Up Overnight Once you’re used to being locked up for hours, then it's time to take it to the next level by wearing the device overnight. Before we proceed, you need to know that this can be very challenging if not carefully planned out. Constriction comes with chastity and it can cause some discomfort when you are trying to relax all other muscles of your body. It is suggested that you take a break for a few hours before going to bed with your cage on. Use a generous amount of lube especially when you are using silicone or plastic devices to avoid it clinging on to your skin. There will be times that you’ve woken up with an erection but don’t worry as this is completely normal. A full bladder may cause this so go ahead and immediately relieve yourself then walk around until your penis becomes flaccid again. If you are unable to sleep after this, it is okay to take the cage off. Your keyholder would understand that you are still in the adjustment phase and that you may resume in the morning. Communicate With Your Keyholder As we have previously mentioned on our beginners’s guide to male chastity, we cannot stress enough on how important communication is. This is more crucial now that you have started on your chastity journey. Having your keyholder by your side can feel somewhat reassuring, as you know that someone is regularly checking on you. You may also establish a safeword if you have both agreed on this especially for times that you’re in public so that certain measures can be done about it. You may also discuss with your partner whether or not you will be given a spare key, but we do suggest that you have one for emergency purposes of course. Since most devices come with at least two pairs of keys, your partner can share this with you as she can even wear it as an ornament, to constantly remind you that she owns you and your sexuality. Although this can be a disadvantage for you since you might get turned on, you can look at the bright side and consider it a means to solidify self-discipline and lust control. Time To Explore! It’s quite a misconception to think that male chastity shuts down any possibility of having sex. Quite the contrary, this is now your chance to get more creative with your partner as the possibilities are endless. There a lot of new sex positions that you may both try to help spice things up even further. Although it may seem one-dimensional, we believe that it should be the case since you have given up control of your sexuality. You may also find time to add more items to your chastity collection with your partner especially after you’ve gotten used to your new cage. There are a lot of cages and accessories to choose from as most of it comes in a variety of colors and designs. Male chastity can offer a lot more to the table than you think at first glance. It’s an enriching new lifestyle for couples as long as everything is consensual and not forced. There is so much more than having your dick locked up as chastity can help you develop self-discipline and a strong belief in your new firm attitude.