I believe in extremes. I cannot be soft-polite, lead you to live life on hopes and do nothing to make them true. If you ask me something, there are chances you may think I am rude, but that would be honest reply. Yeah, I can butter-it-up and present in a form that you won't be hurt but common! That will not help you, as you will feel "Oh, I didn't do wrong" and you may continue to do it, which is not supposed to be.
I am gender-neutral writer as well, and I don't take a particular side till some question which makes no sense pointing someone comes up.
I love stories, and I love to write stories as well, so you will find many stories in my answers, and will be adding many more in future as well.