Steven Sydney Glynn

© 2021 Ghostwritten by Steven Sydney Glynn Chapter 1 The Alpha Male The definition of an Alpha Mail A man tending to assume a dominant or domineering role in a social or professional situation T hroughout history there has always been a quite common misconceived stereotypical myth about the human Alpha male. You think of the animal kingdom where the Alpha Male is the most dominant male, or the leader of the pack. Simply put......the numeral uno, number one, always fighting and battling to stay head honcho, leader of the pack until one day he gets too old and weak then finally succumbs to the newest, youngest, strongest from his troupe or clan or even a complete outsider who then naturally takes over and becomes the new Alpha male and then the cycle gets repeated time after time, decade after decade, century after century. Whilst this maybe the case in the animal kingdom, in our human society things are not that simple Over the years the human Alpha male has become a lot more refined and evolved, and he has completely changed the concept away from how we imagined the Alpha Male to be. Most women would find that if they were out in a bar, or restaurant, or anywhere for that matter and an Alpha male was to walk into the room, for some unknown reason, they would quite Possibly stop what they were doing and take notice, but this is not because the Alpha Male is trying to stand out and draw attention to himself, it is just mother nature. You see the Alpha male believes in himself and has absolute trust in his gut judgement. When he walks into that room, he naturally radiates strong wise intelligent confidence without begging, asking, or demanding it. His magnetism and aura naturally command your respect. You might unconsciously find yourself gazing in his general direction without even realising. Now let us investigate the mind of the alpha male, in various situations. In times of emergency and crisis while most people around him are running around like headless chickens he will be the one that is calmly assessing the situation and naturally working out which is the best and safest course of action, but he will not be working out what the best and safest course of action is for himself he will be trying to work out the best situation for everybody. It has been said in times of immense crisis, time itself to the alpha male seems to slow down giving him that extra little bit of space and time to try and unconsciously keep as many people as safe as possible, even if that means him risking his own safety or life, and it will not be until a little while after the event that it will completely sink in just how dangerously close, he came to making the wrong decision and absolute disaster. Then his next thought would be......”in any normal situation I would never have chosen to do that because the risk would have been far too great.” But in fact, what exactly happened in that extraordinary life-threatening moment, was, his mind and body went into the most common of basic human reactions to an immensely dangerous and stressful situation. A known medical condition called fight or flight mode, resulting with the brain going into a state of complete automatic autopilot. That is caused by the stimulating rush of adrenaline and noradrenaline that would have been rushing through his blood stream and around his body. Now there is absolutely nothing unusual about the fight or flight mode, every single human being can enter that brief state when facing extreme life-threatening danger, but the unusual thing about the Alpha male is......he can still calmly think things through and put every body’s safety before his own. When it comes to matters of love. If he were to approach you in a bar and ask you if you would like a drink and strike up a conversation with you, but you were not really in the best of moods, because either you have had a demanding day or you have had a whole night of other men bothering you, he would not take offense he would just turn around to you and say, something like, “ I understand and if you change your mind I will be sitting over there.” Now where the alpha differs from the other categories, is, that is what he will be thinking. Whereas the other men that are not Alpha’s, would most probably take offense or get angry, and if they did not get angry, they would most probably keep trying it on with you all night, which would put you in an even worse mood. But all the while the person that you were thinking of would be the man that showed you the most respect and was the politest, and the one that it did not seem to bother, yes, the alpha. If you were to find yourself out on a date with an alpha male, you would find that he is most definitely nothing like any of the other groups of men, while most other men would be sitting there talking to you what they will be thinking would be, “I just want to get you into bed.” But you would find that this is genuinely not that important to the alpha, he really would be quite happy just sitting talking to you. And because of that, it would leave you wondering whether he was interested and the fact that you are not sure about that, would be the cause to make you even more curious. There we have it again, the alpha has somehow managed to make you or any other woman, want to know more about him, and he has done nothing consciously to try and make that happen, and on top of that there is something about him that makes you feel very safe and comfortable in his company. So now you understand that when you probe into the mind of the alpha, while he is on a date with you and you want to know what he is thinking, the truth is, he is not really thinking that much, but the whole situation seems to naturally go with a flow which in turn, makes you feel even more comfortable. If we delve into the mind and the thought patterns of the Alpha male when it comes to business and education, you will sometimes find that he is not always the most successful or richest, with the biggest bank balance, but he will be, the most content. This is because whatever he chooses to do, he does with the upmost passion and belief. He always chooses his vocational path and career according to his morals and intense passion. The Alpha male in his younger days as a student, might just decide and think to himself, half way through his study’s, “You know what, this just is not for me”, and there would be absolutely nothing anyone could say or do to possibly convince him to change his mind, even if he was an A1 student and top of his class, instead he would realise, he has not actually wasted any precious time because no matter what, it has been a priceless learning experience, and he has gained great knowledge that will stay with him for the rest of his life. When you investigate the mind of the Alpha male in the workplace, you would find, he will never fool himself into believing he knows everything, in fact he is fully aware of just how much he does not know. If he were to open his own business, he would be the first person to ask for advice from someone, that has already made a success of the thing that he is trying to do. So, to put it in a nutshell, the Alpha male is brutally honest with himself, and would never shy away from his weaknesses, and in the office environment he would command the utmost respect from his peers and from people working under him. So, when you are dating an Alpha mail and you want to know how to handle him in any given situation, you must realize that he really is a very genuine guy and extremely trustworthy. what you see is what you get. If you ever find that you are asking yourself that same old question...... “what is he thinking about and is he playing games with me”? Almost every time the answer would be ‘NO’! I will let you into a little secret, it has been said, when you date an Alpha male, Copyright © 2021 by Yasmin Cuevas. >> Ghostwritten by Steven Sydney Glynn by Steven Sydney Glynn © 2021 ssg international Act One My Big Mistake I wasn’t going too fast, but the noise from that engine, really didn’t fill me with much confidence, and the situation concerning the fuel, wasn’t making me feel much better. I don’t know why I keep looking at my watch, it is not going to make this surreal nerve-racking time, pass any quicker. When I get there, all I need to do is go in, try not to make too much conversation, pick it up, hide it on me somewhere that nobody will be able to see it, say my goodbye’s, get back in the car, and quietly drive off. I looked at my watch again, as I pulled into the grounds, ‘please car, lovely car, just keep shtum for a few moments, we mustn't draw any attention to ourselves.’ So, I turned off the engine and lights then slowly rolled the car to a quiet stop. Now my heart is beating so loud and so fast, it feels like it is going to jump straight out of my chest, and my mouth is as dry as the bottom of a birdcage, come on pull yourself together. The icy cold, a bit straight threw me, it was like stepping out into a freezer, but at least there was nearly a full moon so I could see where I was walking, the sound of those pebbles under my boots was making too much noise, and I think my nerves were beginning to get the better of me. “What the f...k!” I angrily whisper-shouted under my breath. It made me stop dead in my tracks, oh my good god......I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. I had pulled into the wrong house. So, I tried my hardest, to calm down, as I quietly ran back to the car. That is when I tripped and banged my head. I’ve got blood running down my face, and unbeknown to me, there was also a load all over a small ornament that I banged my head on, and on top of that, there’s bright flashing security lights, and sirens wailing loudly now, in fact it looked like the whole house was flashing. Helicopters were hovering overhead, with black cladded SAS men dropping to the ground from ropes. ......err, ok, actually no there weren't any helicopters or black cladded SAS men dropping to the ground, ‘Maybe I just got a bit carried away there.’ But the house, was practically spinning on its access, with all the noises and flashing lights. That’s all I need. What's that I can see in the distance? A big bloody Alsatian dog running up to me, growling, with its massive white teeth showing and a load of thick wet salivary liquid, flying through the air, in slow motion, splashing past the moonlight. “for god's sake, just get up, and leg it back to the car” My head was shouting at me. I managed to pull myself up, and I started running in the opposite direction to the dog, which unfortunately was also, in the opposite direction of the car. As I was running, I could hear police sirens, and the sky seemed to be lighting up with blue flashing lights, this night was just getting worse. I found myself coming towards a low bush covered fence, and as I started to bundle myself over it, the dog had caught up with me, and was gnarling and chomping at my foot, which was now in its mouth. My shoe came off as I landed on some soft wet grass, on the other side of the fence. Hang on, why was I running, I hadn’t actually done anything wrong, we’ll not yet anyway. My brain was going ten to the dozen. What should I do, keep running, or just go back to my car, but then if I go back, the police are going to start asking me some awkward questions ‘like why I am here?’ I could tell them I got lost, but then they would ask me, ‘why did I get out of my car?’ If I run, they will get my details from my licence plate anyway, then I really will look like I have done something wrong. Come on use your brain. Go back speak to them, wing it, and hope for the best. My Second Big Mistake So, what did I do? Like an idiot, I panicked and ran. I had absolutely no idea where I was running to, but I knew I had to quickly get my bearings and find my way back out onto the street. Just then, to make things even worse, this wet, icy cold rain, started to come down, lashing itself all over me, and my only friend, the bright moonlight had disappeared. It was pitch black, and I couldn’t see a thing. Copyright © 2021 ssg international | written by steven Sydney glynn - - ssginternational.co.uk