Kelvin m. Wanjiru

How to get Your EX back Our lives can be a little tricky especially when we have not yet moved on from a recent break-up. Most break-up are brought about by either mistakes or small misunderstandings which could have been solved. However some break-ups are as a result of terrible cheatings by either of the parties in a relationship. Most cheating scenarios are due to lack of strong bond between spouses, lust, revenge, loneliness, long distance relationships, temptations, greed, work circumstances where one might get into an intimate relationship with a superior in the company they are working at to get promotion or an added incentive. It happens so fast and before you know it, it’s done! The relationship that you had worked so hard to maintain slips out of your grip and there is nothing you can do at that particular time. The golden moments you spent together with your love slowly fades away and becomes meaningless. The face that you always craved to see, becomes the last thing you want to lay your eyes on earth. The process is quite painful, but neither of you is willing to back off. When it is finally done and she/he is out of your life, for a moment you feel like you are free. You tell yourself that it’s done. Little do you know that it’s only a matter of time and the great moments you spent together starts to rekindle in your mind. You miss your Ex but you don’t know how you can get him/her back in your life. Well, it’s hard but there is always a second chance for everything. Here are some tips that can help you get your Ex back. Give them time first Time is the master healer. Time heals every wound. You don’t really go to mess up with a fresh wound. You let it heal first then you can start undressing it. Give your Ex a little ‘me’ time to get a hold of their emotions then approach them once more. The best thing to do is to start with short and general conversations. Ask them how they are doing, how their day was and so on. Give them a new impression of yourself once more. After doing this for some time, start engaging in longer conversations but be very careful. Don’t renew the old issues because it won’t work out. Start sharing their sorrows and share yours as well. This will help establish a new and different relationship. Surprise them Start bringing them gifts that you already know they love. Buy them small presents that will remind them only of the good moments you spent together. Ask them out for coffee and surprise them with a bouquet of flowers that will put a good impression in their minds. Make them recall the good you. Prove to them that you deserve each other Show them that you still appreciate them even though you aren’t together anymore. Avoid doing things that you know they don’t like. Wear clothes of the colour they like. Tell them that you can’t get over them no matter how hard you try. Tell them how hard life has become without both of you getting each other’s back. Tell them that you still love them. Apologise passionetly and be ready to forgive When you are spending time together, apologise relentlessly like you really mean it. Confess that you made a mistake or if it’s them that made the mistake, tell them that you forgave them and you are ready to put the ugly times behind you. Tell them that you love them still and you are ready to love them more. Love forgives and Love wins over all. Just believe in your Love and you will get your Ex back. The secret to be happy again is lies in your courage.