Jawad Hussain

A Fulfilling Tomorrow Awaits You I challenge you to find a better feeling than to start your day with determination and end it with satisfaction. Are you up for the challenge? Enough of procrastination already, because the good news is that you can achieve this simple yet intricate goal by becoming a doer. Many people don't achieve it because they doubt their abilities and talents. They end up making excuses. Do you know how life changes when you decide to become a doer? If not, we will help you along this journey to the happy land that you are yet to come across. Life As We Know It Life, as we all know it, has its ups and downs. We all have faced mental demons and experienced psychological meltdowns, haven’t we? You would have heard people complaining about life all the time. Some of them find life harder than they ever imagine. Many find their energies drained enough to do any positive thing. Students find themselves in a whole new world after completing their studies. Their educational degrees become irrelevant in practical life. They have to start all over again by learning from their experiences. Many of them fail to find a decent job despite acing their academic careers. Others get stuck on their way back to wellness after years of a clumsy lifestyle. If you’re one of such individuals, this book will be your Gateway to a Fulfilling Life. Yes, there are many ways to reinvent your personality and leave the failures of the past behind for good. It all starts when you become a doer. That's when you take the first giant leap towards making your life meaningful. Let’s take a look at how you can break the shackles and become the person that you have always wanted to become. 1- Beat Your Demons Almost everyone on this planet is fighting a battle of their own. Some face mental roadblocks whereas others find life a bit too hard to conquer. Well, it all starts with a mental conundrum. Yes, the limits that people install in their minds stop them from seeing reality. They fail to devise a formidable plan to achieve success. So, the first task on your way is to liberate your mind from all such restrictions. Your mind knows no boundaries, so why restrict it? Let your brain explore the world around you. Let it consume as much information as it can because it will help it in calculating the right solutions. Once you break mental barriers, you start producing results. It can be a long road to liberation and it will happen for you someday, if not today. A powerful brain becomes the source of energy and this is where the journey to success begins. 2- Discover Your Motivation Have you ever reconciled with the person within you? Have you ever given that person a chance to communicate with you? Unfortunately, most of us are not aware of this person inside us. They have never met this guy, and believe me this guy inside you can change your world for good. Once you’re self-aware, you start finding motivation in every little task in life. From shedding extra pounds to achieving a superlative body, you're always motivated. You become a whole new strong individual who is invincible and ready to fight. So, once you have decided to break the barriers, you give your mind the liberty to explore the untapped. The next thing on the wish list is to find your motivation. You should figure out the tasks that get the best out of you. It could be even spending time with your kids or spouse. It is all about finding your happy place. Your happy place is your motivation and this is where you derive energy. At the end of the day, you will need this energy to keep you on track and don’t get distracted by small failures and hiccups. 3- Find Your Orbit You must have observed that the whole universe is working in an orchestrated program. All the objects have their fixed orbits and time zones. The same is the case with life and people. Some people achieve success in their teenage or 20s while others leave it late for their 40s or 50s. Some get there in their post-retirement phase. The idea is to find the right balance at the right time and the right place. When you find a free mind, motivation, and a consistent routine, success starts finding you. So, the first thing you should do today is to devise a new schedule that is workable and that excites you. Find a routine for your sleep, breakfast, lunch, dinner, gym time, office time, and family time. When you strike a perfect balance between these things, you gain control over your life. And this is what it is all about! Such control over your life will let you get up with determination and hit the bed with satisfaction. 4- You’re Unique Once again, if you look at the universe, you will find out that every star and planet is different from each other. They are different even if their recipe is similar. They have their different trajectories in the solar system. It further sets them apart from each other. This is exactly how people should treat their life. You can start by stopping to compare yourself with others. Stop comparing the work-in-progress YOU with the ones who are success stories. You might have started together but it is not necessary to finish at the same time. You’re not in this world to become a part of a competition or a race. You’re here to live and lead your individual life. It doesn’t matter if someone else has many cars when you don’t even have one. What matters is the sense of satisfaction and happiness in your heart and mind. When your heart and mind are in the same place, life starts making sense. This is where you find the light at the end of the tunnel and make decent progress. 5- Avoid Toxic Elements It is not smooth sailing when you try to become a doer and make a positive contribution to society. You come across negative and toxic people every day in and out. Many of you communicate with narcissist elements, thinking they would understand. You think you can change their way of thinking. But this isn’t how this world operates. The worst thing about toxic people is that they bring you down to their level, beat you up, and leave you ruptured. The best way of dealing with such people is to strike them out of your life. You need people who want to be part of your positivity and help you further your goal. It would also allow you to achieve something a lot earlier than your original plans. So, cut the naysayers and focus on your goals. 6- Make Unpopular Choices Once you have a liberated mind, your power to beat demons increases manifold. Your ability to stay motivated gives you the vision to see beyond the competition. You are strong enough to cut toxic elements from your life. You have the strength to survive the darkness. This is where you take the toughest decisions in life. Tough decisions don't have to be the popular ones. You might be doing good in a career, but at heart, you know you’re not made for this job. What to do? Will you continue to follow the monotony or will you break the shackles? Are you going to do something that is not acceptable to the people around you? Are you ready to break the monotony and step out of your comfort zone? This is the kind of strength that you get as a gift when you decide to become a doer. So, go pragmatic and rebel at the same time and choose what you believe is right for you. Don’t bother thinking about how people around you would rate your decision. It is you who should feel comfortable at the end of the day. A Fulfilling Tomorrow Awaits You Life, as we know it, is a set of challenges and rewards. People face challenges one way or the other but not all end up with rewards. Failures do break your mind and absorb your energies. But at the same time, it is also a new beginning to revive yourself and do things differently. If you follow the tips mentioned above, you will get there sooner or later. Always keep in mind that it is your life. You need to be in the driver’s seat to steer it to the destination you find peace and happiness.