Devika Primic

• • • • Edit Stats Delet Submit to a HubPages Network Site 50 Do You Give up Easily? Devika Primić Devika enjoys sharing her work with a friendly community. Writing opens the mind to be hopeful. Online work has improved her lifestyle. Contact Author Be yourself to be happy Giving up is not an option, it does not mean it's the weakness in me, nor does it mean insecurity and being less confident. I had experiences and felt like giving up on challenges, but had to overcome these feelings with positivism. I must admit, there had been times when I felt powerless. Life had given me everything and one day it all disappeared. I did allow myself to wake up and see the light rather than facing the dark vent and cried when I felt stressed. Stressful moments made me feel at my worst and I knew I had to do something for myself to be happy again. People say and do what they want, but I had to do right for myself. Beautiful Views Source Giving up is not an option People who are supportive when at your weakest point are those you should be counting on; and are worth having in your life. I learned of that from my own personal experiences. The little moments had taught me greater lessons. I did not know that until I saw the greater changes in my life. My freedom and peaceful surroundings have shown me to appreciate life. Most people are not as brave or courageous to just pick up and move to another country. Without trying you will never know the outcome. It is better to have tried than to not have tried at all. One is often affected by such experiences in a negative way. My supportive family helped me grow stronger in such times. To depend on others is not what my parents had taught me. I gained my independence and don't allow the opinions of others to affect me. I think about the best and focus on what I want and not on what others want for me. I live by the choices I make and have made and not by the choices of others. To be myself and to prove to myself of the best I have and to give to others. I laugh each day and that makes me feel great. I don't care about what others have to say about me. Be yourself and be positive! My focus has been on the most important, and the best is what I had to do in order to move on with my life. I am not a dreamer; I see the reality of life and wasn’t doubtful of my ideas. View in Cavtat Source Overlooking the sea Sunset views | Source Follow your dreams Having a dream and following that dream is a huge part of my life. To have a dream and to not work on it, that I will not have what always dreamed of. Also, I must make that dream come true. To just to think it will happen to me without any hard work toward that dream, is not the reality of life. To have hope and dreaming is normal, but I got to make it happen to myself to allow an open path to come my way. I am not the type to just think everything will happen in due time. Laziness does not bring you success. I dream of a goal and want that for me. Hard work is required for me to achieve that goal. In the end, I am the proud one of my achievements. I know to be myself and to achieve my goals and the sky is the limit. I focus on my need and wants from life, not on the negative thoughts. I do what I feel happy with and free from the depressive attitude to life. Be up for a challenge. The climb felt easy after the hardship slowly took its turn in a different direction. Away from my path. I felt the difficult climb and I continued the difficult climb up the steep hill. Finally, I reached a point when I saw the lighter path of another tunnel. I knew then, as I do now. the only option on me was to try harder and I have tried and failed and tried again until I had succeeded. I couldn't avoid feeling awkward after I met a few local people, and those feelings became normal feelings. Anyone can feel awkward but that moment for me passed by easily. I did not let one or two awkward moments trouble me. I let go without acknowledging what was the most problematic at that time. Certain people can make one feel awkward either on purpose, or it is just the way people choose to interact. I made my change in myself acceptable and that is one of my most important parts of my life. My great experiences have taught me more of another type of life. I have identified with my circumstances, and do not fight with what I know is not worthy of my time and good energy. It sounds easy to give up on a dream or what I want from life itself. The lifestyle I have shown me a true person from within. I don't give up on that. No matter what I go through there is always a solution to a problem. Life is precious and positive thoughts lead the way for other ways and for all tragedies. I knew what to focus on when I saw the different lifestyle in Croatia. To live a healthy lifestyle in eating healthy foods makes my life feel happier