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Walk it Out.
Courtney Hope Willson
Apr 7 · 3 min read
Want to get happy? Try taking a walk.
Most days, my dog, Marlo, and I take a short walk around the
neighborhood. We head out just about the time the sun rests in that
special slot in the sky- the place where the trees light up and the world
seems to shimmer just a little more than it did before. I pull on some
shoes, shield my eyes, and let that lovely, stubborn dog pull me down
the street. She will pull and tug until she understands that our
collaboration is far better (and less exhausting) than our struggle. (A
metaphor for life, perhaps?) We generally walk one of three routes and,
some days, I even let her choose which one it will be. Yesterday we
walked my favorite, if only because it takes us past the most
wonderfully lived-in home where jazz music is always playing and the
neighborhood kids are always laughing.
I’m a big believer in taking walks, and not just the put-on-your-runningtights-and-tennis-shoes-and-pretend-to-run kind of walks. I’m a
believer in the daily stroll — the kind that allows you to intentionally
explore the world around you. I believe in taking the time to notice the
slightest changes in the leaves or the cosmetic shifts happening to the
home being restored down the street. I believe in waving to the older
gentleman who always walks his dog at the same time of day as you
and stopping to wish him a very good evening. I believe in not having
anywhere to be — at least for a little while — and in stopping to take a
picture or two. You’d be surprised by how much life happens in the
amount of time it takes to huff it a few blocks.
I grew up taking walks. My family went on frequent walks together. My
friends and I would go on “hikes” and try to see what new things we
could discover in the same old trees and same old sidewalk cracks that
we were accustomed to. Depending on where my family lived, I often
walked to school, and have distinct memories of formulating elaborate
schemes and stories in my head in the amount of time it took for me to
reach my destination. In college, my friends and I would roam around
campus for hours, often times in the middle of the night, just for the
adventure of it. When I adopted Marlo, daily walks became part of the
deal. And I loved it. I loved the excuse to stroll around the
neighborhood in the early evening and let my imagination run wild.
Someone once told me, “If life begins to feel difficult, take a walk. You’ll
feel better by the time you’ve rounded the corner towards home.” The
exercise is helpful, of course. But more than that, I believe it’s the
vantage point. These daily walks act as medicine, a meditation of sorts,
and they allow me to create my own kind of therapeutic time-lapse. I’m
only able to take in the world as slowly or quickly as my body (and
Marlo) allows. There is more time for the details and even more space
for my thoughts and creativity. I’m allowed to take note of all that has
changed and all that has stayed the same, and rest in how much beauty
resides in all that is ordinary. For many of us, it takes a whole lot of
effort to do that kind of simple work. But I’m willing to try.
So, tonight, when I get home, I’ll put on my comfortable shoes and grab
the leash. Marlo will get excited because she knows an adventure is
about to be had. She’ll pull me down the street and I’ll do my best to
take note of how the sunlight hits the cement and how the smell of
fresh laundry, most likely from the neighbors’ house, is still hanging
heavy in the air. I’ll take a deep breath, push aside the stress from the
day, and do the simple work of focusing on the present. I’ll wave to the
older gentleman, dodge the bicycle commuters, and enjoy the journey.
And then we’ll probably take the long route, just because we can.