Catherine Chatto

Why mustn’t have sex before marriage Some people say the end is near. The second coming of Christ based on the catholic realm written in the bible is now obviously happening supported by prophesies that frighteningly came to life. When you happened to read the bible, you will notice that it tackled about the sacredness of marriage. The things you must do and must not do. Studies shown a lot of reasons why premarital sex is deviously dangerous. If you want to live with a good reputation and healthy marriage that is free from divorce, discourage yourself from the matter. One of the reasons why you shouldn’t have sex before marriage is that it degrades the wisdom underpinning to the institution of marriage. It endangers women. Not just women themselves but also their rights. Pointing much to when both of them are just attracted physically without proper foundation, everything will just result to being apart. Not engaging to premarital sex is also a test if a man can really wait and if he is driven by real and true love. Notice every country’s divorce rate skyrocketed just because they engaged themselves to premarital one that we’re talking about. Women lose out. We are all aware that men can literally have sex with anyone they want even if they are already tethered to their wives, not the same goes to women whom we can say that 90% are faithfully founded in love and marriage. Premarital sex has always been paralleled by broken family. We can’t deny the fact that after they engaged themselves on the matter and found out that they are not compatible they come up with horrible decisions that precedented by abortion or broken family. On the other hand, chastity is a very beautiful word. It shows how you truly love the person you are with. You value the beauty of marriage while showing how to basically do it through sincerity. You see, the problem of premarital sex is it takes the respect from women later on. Because it is founded in the wrong place and wrong time it resulted to violence. Because in reality you still don’t know the person you have sex with and then you get pregnant without giving it a proper thought. And now it causes to the both of you a huge problem. If sex is the foundation of your marriage or the only reason why you are together then you are just using your partner as a punching bag for emotional stress. You are just looking for some diversion. If you don’t want it anymore. You will just leave. Always going to look for exits. Even if not engaging to premarital sex has been labeled outdated, we can’t deny the fact that it is one of the things that we must be sure of when getting married. A test for real love. Pure love.