“What you sow is what you harvest” – is there any truth?
“They are all talking about some stupid law of attraction…Nonsense. I have no time for this hippy kind of stuff. Achieving something just by your thoughts? Not in my case.” Does it sound familiar? But, let us check something. Did this happen to you - you smile to someone and get the smile back? This is “the stupid” law of attraction.
Try it out again and you will see that this small thing actually brings a lot of joy. Now, think about changing your whole life in this way. Think about how it would look like if you are sending confidence and happiness with your body, words and even thoughts, every day.
The smile is only the beginning. The next step is being cheerful, regardless of all your daily stress, problems, bad weather, etc. Show this positive emotion with your face and others will see it. Remember, nobody wants to be in company of someone who is sending negative energy all around. You will infuse them with positive energy and it will be a pleasure to communicate or work with them. Not just your face – your whole body should act like this, so keep your head up. Your posture is extremely important - let your spine be straight and shoulders back. Did you see how the successful and happy people walk? Let your body show how confident and brave you are. Your problems will run away from you and positive people will come to you. If you have problems and you are trying hard to find solutions, visualize the escape from that situation. Believe there are solutions and you will find them easy, believe that all will end good… There are your thoughts, too. If you are anxious and afraid that something bad will happen to your family, it is not good. Try to visualize health, love and success for them and you will attract good things to your loved ones.
What is happening if you sow anger or frustration? If you are in bad mood all the time, all the joyful people will avoid you. Instead of being negative and rude to your employers, colleagues or your partner, try to compliment them and you will see the change soon in their work and behavior. If you are thinking about your past and all the bitter things that happened to you, be sure that the future won’t be much better. Even if you are not feeling well, even if you are sick and you think you have all the rights to be negative…Your body is being controlled by the brain. Don’t be focused on pain, but on possibility to be alive and to feel this world.
Don’t be negative all the time, don’t be “the hater”, don’t predict bad situations, failure or sickness. Get rid of this kind of thoughts, clear your mind and fulfill it with brightness and good expectations.
And what is happening if you are sowing love and kindness? No bad things. You will get the same from to others. So, help to someone, he or she will remember it and you will get help when you need it. Even if you don’t get help from that person, you will get it from another. Of course, there is a bonus – you will feel much better knowing that you acted as a human. Give food or money to homeless and you won’t be hungry, help someone in healing and you will not be sick…Compliment others and magnify their strengths, so you will be stronger at the end. If you are nice and polite, there is no reason for others to be rude to you.
So, why wouldn’t you give it a chance? No coach needed – you’ll be your own coach. Start this morning with decision you will give your best to radiate only positive emotions. Maybe it will be hard at the beginning, but don’t give up – every smile you give, every moment of sending good vibrations will come back to you as a boomerang.