New beginning
Hello friend. In creating this journaI, I have
pulled on my own experiences in working
with orphans, as well as the stories of many
families who have already begun this journey.
I personally want you to make a conscious
decision about the new child or children you
are adding to your family.
If you will be honest with yourself, I promise
you this will help you in the future. I can tell
you now, you might change your mind after
considering questions you normally wouldn’t
ask yourself. Just remember, this was made
to help you. I truly pray that God will lead you
and your family in the way He wants, because
when you have struggles, you will need to
have something to stand on!
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Teach me your way, Lord,
and I will live by your truth.
Give me an undivided
mind to fear your name.
Psalms 86:11 (CSB)
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CONTENT
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Your story
How did
I get here
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Your
expectations
Why I
want to adopt
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On my way to
a new life
Bringing
my child home
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They
are different
How to
understand my child
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Part 1
YOUR STORY OF ADOPTION
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Your story of adoption
In this section, write down
your thoughts, emotions, and
questions about the adoption
process. Day by day, create your
own story—because this story
will help you one day. Spend
time with God. Ask what He
wants for you and ask Him to
open His plan for your life.
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HERE IS YOUR STORY OF
WHY YOU DECIDED TO
ADOPT.
My story of adoption
Spend time thinking about
when and why you started to
think about adoption.
What fears did you have?
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My story of adoption
My story of adoption
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My story of adoption
Talk to someone,
especially your spouse.
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My story of adoption
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My story of adoption
Try to be honest;
go deeper and be real about
all of your emotions and feelings.
WHAT DO YOU FEEL?
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My story of adoption
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My story of adoption
My story of adoption
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My story of adoption
MY SPOUSE
My story of adoption
What does my spouse
say about adoption?
Are we on the same page?
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My story of adoption
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My story of adoption