Aadesh Naresh Shukla

Article INTIMACY Photos by Yohann LIBOT on Unsplash I​ntimacy is the most unique trait of a being; every person holds a different value of intimacy. It's not only about the picture of intimacy which strikes our mind for an instant. It's also about the pool of factors that adds up to build the whole scenario and relation of this trait with daily life assets and abilities . One's intimacy doesn't really decide their ability to converge to all the aspects of his life that asks for immediate responses, but it can actually affect some of them- one way or another. Let me explain these to you in a more convenient way: If a person is excellent with conversations, we can’t say anything clearly about his/her intimacy levels but (here comes the ace) if we get to know about a person's intimacy levels we can strongly predict his ability to converse, debate, influence and much more. The ups and downs of one's life probably depends on the lack or excess of these aspects. One's normal approach will be to find and resolve them individually for the final atmos. What if we first try and improve the intimacy itself ? What if it also brings stability to the other matters of importance ? Isn’t it beautiful if someone becoming more intimate on nights improves the person’s ability to blog on days ? Let me be clear about two things here: (i) By the term ​more intimate​ I don’t mean a surplus scheduled time to be intimate. So don’t try to be creative about it yet. Slow down. (ii) And another one is that I am trying to convince it in accordance with the psychological behaviour of a being. I am not advising you to become fishy. As much satisfying the thought of increasing one’s intimacy levels is, It’s not easy to be implemented. A person’s normal behaviour doesn’t allow this idea to flourish. A major reason is an individual's insecurities to try a totally different concept in already so delicate relations. Even if the first person overcomes such insecurities and musters up the courage to upgrade, the same insecurities of his/her partner blocks the pathway of hope. Another reason is consent, the majority of people still get offended if a third person tells them about the deficits of their private space. That ultimately leads us to the need of a more clever and less hesitant attitude of every being. There will be less dissatisfaction in this world if we do so and it works.